I've read through all this thread...I don't know exactly why...
Let me tell you, rocketdued: in the start of the thread your attitude towards Orbiter sounded maybe a bit over-excitated, so you started right away with Shuttles and such. I can understand that. But you obviously failed. Space flight ain't an easy task.
Then lots and lots of wise and patient tips have been repeatedly given to you by
real Orbiter veterans.
You slowly started to acknowledge their value, and to recognize you should have started again from square one. Good.
Then there was a short break for Christmas, and after that you came back with your need of finding a different space simulator...Maybe you'll find something else that suits you more, but Orbiter is the real thing.
I am, as you, a (virtual) airplane pilot, one of the so-called
hard-core gamers, with expensive hardware, HOTAS, rudders, TrackIR, etc...years of Falcon3 & 4, Jane's F-15, IL-2 series from the start. I actually fly in a WWII virtual squadron. Not much civilian flight (like MSFS), but quite an experience nonetheless.
I thought I knew "enough", thanks to flight-simming, and miserably failed many times (using Dan's DG-IV 2). Everything looked so complex and sounded so new...I then studied the manuals, re-reading them even before attempting what was described, until those new concepts slowly formed and took place in my mind.
In the beginning I thought (like you did) that it was enough to accelerate vertical to go into orbit. I couldn't understand why I was always falling down to Earth.
It's easy to loose faith and get discouraged without knowing the mechanical basics.
Forget flight-simming, this is different. SO different, that my first successful atmospheric reentry from ISS, was keyboard only!
Learning curve can be steep at the beginning, but is rewarding.
In this thread there is
everything you need to know to safely get into orbit.
If you still have problems, it's you, or your hardware.
And please, post that Orbit MFD screen Garyw is waiting for
Happy Orbiting!