So why is the USA taking this attitude with Constellation ?
NASA picks up its old vision of exploring the Moon followed by Mars. NASA sadly had to stop doing so by ending the Apollo program after Apollo 17, which was why Wernher von Braun and other great enginneers and even astronauts left NASA disappointed still in 1972.
I've already heard of international partners being excluded from Ares.
NASA didn't really exclude international partners since the Moon and Mars landing parts of Constellation isn't a joint project from the beginning.
I think what has happened (and so does Friedman) is that the Bush mentality has taken over. What he calls "leadership" has leaked into the space arena.
We always had a space arena less than ever with the Chinese in space manned now. People also seem to forget these days that NASA actually has the assignment to take a leading role in space achievement. This is why NASA was founded. It is not a Bush mentality. It already was Kennedy mentality who presented American mentality. Nothing new here.
Real leadership allows a proper give and take with other players. Do we really want an American Moon base when it really could be "for all mankind" ?
NASA is a big governmental body. If they decide to go to the Moon on their own, there is nothing wrong with it. NASA is not responsible for inviting ESA, Roscosmos or others on the Moon and Mars landing parts of Constellation. Like ESA doesn't have to invite NASA for Ariane or Roscosmos doesn't have to invite ESA or NASA for Soyuz. And not to mention the Chinese. It's all about decisions and not commitments luckily.
We might see international teamwork when a station on the Moon is going to become reality. But there are no commitments of doing so.
I still think a lot of what ISS has and is achieving is obscured by politics that continues to rule out flexibility in budget plans and international team work.
I think the bad thing is, which even Griffin also mentioned, that the STS and ISS was not the right path related to manned Moon and Mars mission anyway.
We have a gap of real manned space "exploration" since 1975, not only from 2010 to 2015. Skylab certainly was a good point to start preparing missions to Mars after we landed on the Moon 6 times and that almost perfectly. But Skylab sadly was abandoned for a very expensice system, the STS, designed for low earth orbit operations only. Although STS and ISS is a great achievement of spaceflight engineering, we now have to smooth away its difficulties related to manned Moon missions.
I personally call the manned US spaceflight program past Skylab 4 an unlucky situation related to missions beyond low earth orbit. While Europe and Russia don't have any serious visions of exploring the Moon manned and less than ever Mars (at least I don't know about). The ISS doesn't achieve anything in that direction yet. This is the problem and I think also the crux why NASA is taking that leading role once again.
The biggest contributor, as usual, of the ISS is NASA anyway. Honestly, ESA and Roscosmos (or in other words Ariane and Soyuz) don't impress me at all historically and at present. But that's just my opinion.