And being more comfortable does help a little with the anxiety issues.
I flew to St. John's Newfoundland via Halifax on Air Canada last year. The flight was overbooked, and me and this real
of a woman were bumped from the flight. I was in no particular hurry, had never been to Halifax, so it wasn't a big deal for me. The gate agent was trying to engage both of us to arrange new tickets and accomodations, but the woman spent the better part of an hour trying (but failing) to make the gate agent's life miserable. I sat quietly while the gate agent had to get her manager, and her manager's manager, to come down to be screamed at by this woman. She was so irate that there was no opportunity to actually schedule accomodations for her.
Finally the woman walked away and the gate agent called me over, thanking me for my patience. I chuckled and congratulated her on her fortitude and professionalism for dealing with people like that. The agent smiled and walked me down the terminal to another gate well out of earshot of the woman. She said she was authorized to give me a $400 CAD refund for being bumped (which she did, she gleefully filled out the form in front of me). She then handed me two $20 vounchers for the food court downstairs, giving me a pointer to the good place where the agents ate, and also explaining the vouchers could be used for beer and cocktails. She then informed me that there was a single seat available on a flight leaving in 4 hours, and strangely enough, she decided to give it to me. Unfortunately it wasn't coach; it was business class, but she hoped I didn't mind the upgrade. The only other available seat was a coach seat, in 18 hrs.
So after a lovely lunch and a few beers, and a few hours walking around the airport on a glorious spring day, I went back in through security for my new flight. I walked down the terminal and saw the woman, sullenly slumped in a chair, screaming at someone on her cell phone about how she was going to be stuck at the airport until 6 am the next morning. I walked onto my (now free) flight, sat in the nicest seat in which I have ever flown, and spent 2.5 hours enjoying the glasses of wine, cheese and fruit plates with which the flight attendant kept plying me, enjoring the views of the Maritimes and Newfoundland.
Best. Flight. Ever.
Being patient and polite does pay off sometimes. Whatever you do, don't ever piss off a gate agent. :rofl: