When I'm riding I'm constantly frustrated by motorists, but when I'm driving I find myself making the very same mistakes.
I often hear motorists complain about cyclists. But I realize, no matter if I cycle or if I'm a co-driver in a car, that motorists are actually quite agressive these days. It's due to the everyday stress I guess.
I live in the 9th biggest city of Germany (it was the 5th biggest city a few years ago, but the population numbers don't differ too much anyway except Berlin, Hamburg, Munich and Cologne). The rush-hour traffic here is a mess, right in the middle of the Ruhr region ([ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ruhr"]Ruhr - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia[/ame]). What I observe every day is what police psychologists call "hunting instinct". Everyone wants to be the first and the fastes. Motorists behave like they have no time to lose. They complain about everything; pedestrians, cyclists, even traffic lights. As a cyclist you literally can feel their stress.
When I accelerate at a traffic light for example, I'm faster than most cars in most cases. This is not because I want to be faster, but because a massive car and its gearing usually needs some more time to accelerate from a standing position than my feet and light body and bike needs. It usually takes 3 to 5 seconds, or even longer, (depending on the vehicle) until cars become faster than me. But, conspicuously those with big decadent cars (Mercedes ML 320 or Audi A8 for example) often become rather nervous. They floor the gas pedal and try overtake me in quite a hectical manner (fast and VERY close) to show me who the stronger one is. Tatally ridiculous, because I am a cyclist anyway and because they are standing at the next traffic light anway, and me next to them once again.
But so far no car hit me (only once but it was my fault). As a cyclist you have to use 4 eyes i.e. the two eyes of a car driver too since they often are dreaming (if not nervous). Especially while turning. This is fun at the crossways, when there is a zebra crossing. They usually look for car traffic, but not for pedestrians or cyclists. Then, while turning, they turn their head too finally, but "suddenly" realize there are people going to cross the street (on the zebra crossing). The reaction often is a hectic braking action, while being outraged by the pedestrians or cyclists, of course. Mostly I'm standing already, since I know them inside out. My only reaction is a hint at the very obvious sign beside the zebra crossing on the road...
But I remember a rather friendly young driver. It was a few years ago. He pushed me out of the way, but he obviously didn't realize. He winded down the window and apologized a few times. You don't have such situations very often. I had it only once, within 15 years in this city.
But what I had more oft though was a flirt with female drivers. And it was always them who started, through their open windows
